5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding;
6 In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths.
7 Do not be wise in your own eyes; Fear the Lord and depart from evil.
8 It will be health to your flesh, And strength to your bones.
9 Honor the Lord with your possessions, And with the firstfruits of all your increase;
10 So your barns will be filled with plenty, And your vats will overflow with new wine.
The Saint Louis Cardinals’ Matt Carpenter recently decided it’s time to hang up his cleats to be a full-time dad after 14 seasons in the MLB.
He officially announced his retirement on Sports Spectrum’s “Get in the Game” podcast.
“God really just put it on my heart that it was time to come home and be a dad,” Carpenter said. “I’ve got two little kids. I’ve got a third-grade daughter, Kinley. I got a first-grade son, Cannon. And they are just in such fun ages. I just didn’t want to miss out on any more things that you miss as a professional athlete.”
The article goes on to say:
Throughout his entire career, Carpenter let God guide him. That became especially evident when he made the call to retire.
“For all of my children’s lives at this point, I haven’t been that constant figure at the house due to the demands of a Major League Baseball season,” he said. “I mean, the one benefit of playing professional sports is you do have an offseason where you come home and you are there every single night and you’re spending hours a day that someone that’s working a normal job maybe doesn’t get to spend. You can kind of double down on that time. But then once the season starts, you’re gone a lot and just that tugging on my heartstrings in that specific area when it comes to my wife and children was a big one.”
“As we as we went through the off season, it just became clear and clear to me that, you know, God wanted me here at home,” he added.
The Movieguide piece links to an MLB.com article that noted that Carpenter had spent 12 seasons with the Cards and, "The infielder/designated hitter will be eligible for entry into the Cardinals Hall of Fame in 2028, where he will likely be easily elected as a fan favorite and one of the core pieces of a Cardinals franchise that was a dominant force in the National League in the 2010s." That article added: "Some of the best moments of Carpenter’s career came during the playoffs, where he smashed six home runs and drove in 21 runs in 56 postseason games..." The article said that 2024 was Carpenter's final season. CBS Sports reported that the 39-year old Carpenter "played 59 games for the Cardinals last season but was not signed on the free-agent market this past winter."
Those who play professional sports have a unique set of challenges - for those with families, life during the off-season is quite different than during the season, where players spend plenty of time away from home. Matt Carpenter decided that he would no longer pursue playing Major League Baseball - he believes he was being called home to be with his family.
You have experts who talk about a work-life balance. Certainly those who work at a job have responsibilities there, and there could be tension with the primary responsibility before God to be a husband or wife, mother or father. We can rely on the wisdom of God to guide our steps so that our priorities line up with His will for our lives. There can be a tension that will appear, and we have to allow Him to show us how to navigate that.
And, change will come - wherever God has you from an occupational standpoint will likely not be permanent. We have to be in the Word and in tune with the Spirit to discern when He is moving on our hearts to make a change. He doesn't leave us, fortunately, to our own devices - just as Matt Carpenter knew the right time to make his move, we can make sure that we are in the center of God's will at that particular moment, and be willing to move with Him as He leads us to new adventures - whether it's work, our church life, new responsibilities in other areas, or new ministry opportunities. The good news is that He when we are connected to Jesus, we don't have to rely on guesswork.